Local Customs & Etiquette in Hungary

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Hungarians are generally warm, proud, and appreciate when foreigners make an effort to respect local traditions. Here’s a practical guide to help you navigate daily life and social situations:

Greetings & Politeness

  • Always greet people with “Jó napot kívánok!” (Good day!) when entering a shop, restaurant, or office.
  • Handshakes are standard when meeting someone for the first time. Men usually wait for women to extend their hand first.
  • Use “Ön” (formal “you”) with older people or in professional settings. Younger people are more relaxed with “te” (informal).
  • Say “Köszönöm” (Thank you) and “Kérem” (Please) often — Hungarians notice and appreciate good manners.

Dining & Drinking Etiquette

  • Wait until everyone is served before starting to eat.
  • “Egészségedre!” (Egg-esh-sheg-ed-re) = Cheers! (said when drinking alcohol). Make eye contact.
  • It’s polite to finish everything on your plate, as it shows appreciation for the host’s cooking.
  • Tipping is expected: 10–15% in restaurants (round up the bill).
  • In wine regions, it’s common to taste multiple wines — don’t be shy!

General Social Customs

  • Shoes off — Many Hungarians expect you to remove your shoes when entering their home.
  • Bring a small gift (flowers, chocolates, or a bottle of good wine/pálinka) if invited to someone’s house.
  • Compliment the food — Hungarians are very proud of their cuisine.
  • Avoid sensitive historical topics (especially with older generations) unless you know the person well.

Public Behavior

  • Public transport is quiet and orderly — avoid loud talking.
  • In thermal baths (like Széchenyi), follow the rules: shower before entering pools, wear swim caps in some areas.
  • Smoking is common outdoors but banned in most indoor public spaces.

Fun & Unique Customs

Buda

  • Name Days are often celebrated more than birthdays.
  • On Easter Monday, young men may playfully sprinkle perfume on women (it’s traditional and friendly).
  • Hungarians love toasts and long dinners — meals are social events.

Pro Tip: Learning even a few words in Hungarian (Köszönöm, Szia, Egészségedre) will earn you big smiles and respect.