Local Customs & Etiquette in Indonesia
Indonesians are known for being friendly, polite, and respectful. Here are the most important local customs and etiquette to know:
Greetings: Always greet with a warm smile and “Selamat pagi/siang/sore/malam”. A light handshake is common (sometimes with both hands). Always greet the eldest person first.
Respect for Elders & Hierarchy: Age and status are highly respected. Use polite language (Bahasa Indonesia yang baik) and avoid pointing with your index finger — use your thumb or full hand instead.
Removing Shoes: Always take off your shoes before entering someone’s home, a mosque, or a temple. It’s a basic sign of respect and cleanliness.
Using the Right Hand: Always give and receive things (money, gifts, food) with your right hand. The left hand is considered unclean.
Modest Dress & Behaviour: Dress modestly, especially when visiting religious sites. Public displays of affection are generally avoided. Keep your voice calm and polite in public.
Hospitality & “Jam Karet”: Indonesians are extremely hospitable — expect to be offered food and drink. “Jam karet” (rubber time) means being a little late is often accepted, especially in social settings.
These customs reflect core Indonesian values: respect, harmony (gotong royong), and politeness.