A British Columbia Wedding

A British Columbia wedding is usually a day for family and friends. The couple signs papers, has a short ceremony, then eats and dances. Many are outdoors when the weather is good.

Engagement

• The couple decide to marry and tell family and close friends first.
• A ring is common but not required. Some skip it.
• An engagement party is optional. It is often a dinner or a backyard barbecue.
• The date is set months ahead. Halls and outdoor sites book early in summer.
• Friends and family start to help with plans.

The ceremony

• It can be in a church, a hall, a park, or by the water.
• A legal officiant or a religious one leads it.
• The couple and two witnesses sign the register. That makes the marriage legal.
• Vows can be short or written by the couple.
• Music is played. Guests stand when the couple enter.

The wedding party

• There is usually a best man, a maid of honour, and a few attendants.
• Children may carry rings or flowers.
• Dress is formal for the party. Guests wear smart clothes.
• The party walks in and stands near the couple.
• Photos are taken before or after the ceremony.

The reception

• Guests eat a meal. It can be a sit-down dinner or a buffet.
• Speeches come from the best man, the parents, and sometimes the couple.
• A first dance follows. Then everyone dances.
• The cake is cut and shared.
• People stay until late. Some leave earlier with children.

The next day

• Close family and the wedding party may meet for brunch.
• Gifts are opened if they have not been already.
• The couple often leave for a short trip.
• Thank-you notes go out later.
• The day is quieter. People rest after the party.