Traditional Wedding Customs in Cyprus

In Cyprus (especially among Greek Cypriots), weddings are joyful, family-centered celebrations that blend Greek Orthodox traditions with local island customs. Here’s how a traditional Cypriot wedding usually unfolds:

1. Engagement (Aravones)

The families formally agree to the marriage. The couple exchanges rings, and a small celebration is held with family and close friends.

2. The Role of the Koumbaros / Koumbara

The best man (koumbaros) or maid of honour (koumbara) holds a very important position. They sponsor the wedding crowns, walk with the couple during the ceremony, and are considered spiritual sponsors for life.

3. The Wedding Crowns (Stefana)

During the church ceremony, the priest places two ornate crowns linked by a white ribbon on the heads of the bride and groom. This symbolizes their union as “king and queen” of their new household.

4. The Orthodox Church Ceremony

The wedding takes place in a Greek Orthodox church. Key moments include the exchange of rings, the crowning, the common cup of wine, and the ceremonial walk around the altar (the “Dance of Isaiah”).

5. Money Dance & Pinning Money

At the reception, guests pin money onto the bride’s and groom’s clothing or throw banknotes while the couple dances. This is both a blessing and a practical gift to help the newlyweds start their life together.

6. Traditional Feast & Dances

A large, lively reception follows with abundant food (souvla, meze, sweets), live music, and traditional Cypriot and Greek dances such as the “zeibekiko” and group circle dances that last late into the night.