Indian Local Customs & Etiquette: A Tourist's Guide

Indian people are warm and hospitable. But they have strong customs. Tourists who follow these rules will be treated with respect and kindness.

1. Greetings (Namaste)

• Join palms together at chest level, say "Namaste" or "Namaskar"

• Means "I bow to the divine in you"

• Head nod or slight bow shows respect

• For elders, touch their feet (younger people only)

• Handshake is acceptable in cities but wait for woman to extend first

2. Shoes Off Inside

• Never wear outdoor shoes inside a home or temple

• Remove shoes before entering any place of worship

• Slippers may be offered at homes

• Walking in socks is acceptable

• Never argue about removing shoes

3. Right Hand Only (Especially in Villages)

• Right hand for eating, giving, receiving, and pointing

• Left hand is considered unclean (toilet use)

• Never pass food, money, or gifts with left hand

• Use both hands for very respectful giving (book, money to priest)

• Pointing with finger is rude (use whole hand)

5. Dress Code for Temples

• Remove shoes before entering any temple

• Women: cover shoulders and knees

• Men: wear trousers (shorts not allowed in many temples)

• Head covering not required for most Hindu temples (required for Sikh Gurudwaras)

• Avoid leather items inside temples (belts, bags)

6. Hospitality (Atithi Devo Bhava)

• "Guest is God" is an ancient Indian belief

• Guests are offered water or tea immediately upon arrival

• Never refuse first offer of chai (rude)

• Host will insist you eat more (say "bas" for enough)

• Leaving early from a meal is considered offensive

7. Punctuality (IST – Indian Stretchable Time)

• Business meetings: on time or 5-10 minutes late

• Social events: 30-60 minutes late (normal)

• Wedding events: 1-2 hours late (expected)

• Never arrive early to a home invitation

• Trains and buses may be late (always have buffer time)

8. Public Behavior

• Public displays of affection (kissing, hugging) are frowned upon

• Holding hands is acceptable for married couples

• Men holding hands as friends is common (not romantic)

• Loud arguments or shouting in public is shameful

• Respect personal space (standing too close is uncomfortable)