Local Customs & Etiquette in France

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Understanding everyday manners in France helps you fit in, avoid awkward moments, and show respect.

1. Always Greet First

  • Say “Bonjour” (hello) or “Bonsoir” (good evening) when entering a shop, café, or speaking to someone

  • Leaving? Say “Au revoir”

Not greeting is seen as rude

2. La Bise (Cheek Kisses)

  • La bise

  • Common among friends and family

  • Number of kisses varies by region

In formal situations, a handshake is preferred

3. Table Manners Matter

  • Keep hands visible on the table (not on your lap)

  • Don’t start eating until everyone is served

  • Say “Bon appétit”

Meals are slow, social, and respectful

4. Bread Etiquette

  • Baguette is placed directly on the table

  • Tear bread with hands, not a knife

Bread is part of everyday culture

  1. Politeness & Formality

  • Use “Monsieur” or “Madame”

  • Use “vous” (formal “you”) with strangers

Respect and formality are highly valued

6. Café Culture Etiquette

  • Sitting at a café is not rushed

  • Coffee at the bar is quicker and cheaper

  • Waiters won’t hurry you

Cafés are for relaxing and observing life

Cultural Insight

  • Respect is shown through language and behavior

  • Social interactions follow unspoken rules

  • Being polite goes a long way in France