The Joy of Eid al-Fitr

One of the most special times in our Jordanian community is Eid al-Fitr, which marks the end of Ramadan. Let me share a memory that feels very close to my heart.

Every year, as the crescent moon is sighted, excitement fills our homes. My grandmother would wake up early to prepare mountains of kunafa and maamoul cookies. The whole family — aunts, uncles, cousins — would gather at my grandparents’ house in Amman.

On Eid morning, we all wear new clothes. The children run around in their finest outfits while the women prepare a huge breakfast: mansaf, fresh breads, cheeses, olives, and sweets. After the morning prayer at the mosque, we return home for the big family gathering.

What I love most is the “Eidiya” tradition — the elders give money to the younger ones with warm hugs and blessings. Then comes the Dabke dancing in the courtyard! The men form a line, stomping and clapping to the beat of the songs, while the women ululate with joy (zaghareet). Neighbours visit each other carrying trays of sweets, and the laughter and greetings of “Kull sana wa intum bikhair” (May you be well every year) echo through the streets.

Even in tough times, Eid brings everyone together. It reminds us of gratitude, family bonds, and the importance of sharing.

This festival truly captures the warmth and generosity of Jordanian culture.