Indian Local Customs & Etiquette: A Tourist's Guide
Indian people are warm and hospitable. But they have strong customs. Tourists who follow these rules will be treated with respect and kindness.
1. Greetings (Namaste)
Join palms together at chest level, say "Namaste" or "Namaskar"
Means "I bow to the divine in you"
Head nod or slight bow shows respect
For elders, touch their feet (younger people only)
Handshake is acceptable in cities but wait for woman to extend first
2. Shoes Off Inside
Never wear outdoor shoes inside a home or temple
Remove shoes before entering any place of worship
Slippers may be offered at homes
Walking in socks is acceptable
Never argue about removing shoes
3. Right Hand Only (Especially in Villages)
Right hand for eating, giving, receiving, and pointing
Left hand is considered unclean (toilet use)
Never pass food, money, or gifts with left hand
Use both hands for very respectful giving (book, money to priest)
Pointing with finger is rude (use whole hand)
5. Dress Code for Temples
Remove shoes before entering any temple
Women: cover shoulders and knees
Men: wear trousers (shorts not allowed in many temples)
Head covering not required for most Hindu temples (required for Sikh Gurudwaras)
Avoid leather items inside temples (belts, bags)
6. Hospitality (Atithi Devo Bhava)
"Guest is God" is an ancient Indian belief
Guests are offered water or tea immediately upon arrival
Never refuse first offer of chai (rude)
Host will insist you eat more (say "bas" for enough)
Leaving early from a meal is considered offensive
7. Punctuality (IST – Indian Stretchable Time)
Business meetings: on time or 5-10 minutes late
Social events: 30-60 minutes late (normal)
Wedding events: 1-2 hours late (expected)
Never arrive early to a home invitation
Trains and buses may be late (always have buffer time)
8. Public Behavior
Public displays of affection (kissing, hugging) are frowned upon
Holding hands is acceptable for married couples
Men holding hands as friends is common (not romantic)
Loud arguments or shouting in public is shameful
Respect personal space (standing too close is uncomfortable)